I've just realised how hard it is to take a step back and detach myself from a difficult situation. I want to rush in and sort everything out for a loved one but have to sit on the sidelines and watch unable to do or say anything at all.

I have to stop looking for reasons or answers and let the professionals help my daughter with her illness.

I have just posted this on my own blog:

http://keepingmum.blog.co.uk/2008/08/15/a-painful-post-4591650